<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6789095549483601237.post4351240203430785024..comments</id><updated>2009-10-29T17:10:06.208-05:00</updated><category term='One Small Change'/><category term='homemaking'/><category term='DIY kids'/><category term='boy scouts'/><category term='handmade'/><category term='recycling'/><category term='Works For Me'/><category term='college review'/><category term='vacation'/><category term='feminism'/><category term='politics'/><category term='holiday'/><category term='Day in the Life'/><category term='theology'/><category term='parenting'/><category term='christmas'/><category term='blog recommendations'/><category term='marriage'/><category term='art'/><category term='school'/><category term='general'/><category term='spirituality'/><category term='kitchen'/><category term='modesty'/><category term='grieving'/><category term='being green'/><category term='lifestyle'/><category term='housekeeping'/><category term='friendship'/><category term='tags'/><category term='city'/><category term='church'/><category term='Pantry Cooking'/><category term='Seven Kids'/><category term='social justice'/><category term='family'/><category term='homeschooling'/><category term='house'/><category term='computer/technology'/><category term='podcasts'/><category term='Give them Grace'/><category term='teens'/><category term='movie review'/><category term='reformed faith'/><category term='health'/><category term='musings'/><category term='Confessions of a relaxed unschooler'/><category term='birth blessed'/><title type='text'>Comments on Birthblessed!: Mothering is so hard, it's easy.</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://blog.birthblessed.com/feeds/4351240203430785024/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/4351240203430785024/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.birthblessed.com/2009/10/mothering-is-so-hard-its-easy.html'/><author><name>birthblessed</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15806916118434752130</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='21' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_OMNSW5rtFL0/R_0qnY0zflI/AAAAAAAAAKM/RFieuQevLjo/S220/pinkhair3.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>7</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6789095549483601237.post-2544235065771355180</id><published>2009-10-29T17:10:06.208-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-29T17:10:06.208-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Thanks so much for the friendly disclaimer.  I&amp;#39...</title><content type='html'>Thanks so much for the friendly disclaimer.  I&amp;#39;ve given this serious thought, but honestly my experience raising seven kids outside the U.S. has been nothing like your struggles at all.  No pressure to date, no extracurriculars if we wanted them, no sports teams to join, no pressure to conform to styles and trends except when we visit the U.S., and no calling ahead for doctor&amp;#39;s appointments.  If I ever praise the benefits of a large family, I&amp;#39;ll make sure to keep in mind that my experience is NOTHING like most American moms&amp;#39;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Maybe I&amp;#39;m one of the &amp;quot;liars&amp;quot; you perceive?  Honestly my experience was pretty good.  I prefer the teen years over the preschool years any time!  I love the teen years.  Probably in the U.S. I wouldn&amp;#39;t.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, this was a very eye-opening article.  Thanks.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/4351240203430785024/comments/default/2544235065771355180'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/4351240203430785024/comments/default/2544235065771355180'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.birthblessed.com/2009/10/mothering-is-so-hard-its-easy.html?showComment=1256854206208#c2544235065771355180' title=''/><author><name>Jamie Jo</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04168408977811339924</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10675099537508114216'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Vcf7WdiJsoc/ScaYGh4r2wI/AAAAAAAAAOE/3JnrYBI2YOQ/S220/small+profile+pic.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.birthblessed.com/2009/10/mothering-is-so-hard-its-easy.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6789095549483601237.post-4351240203430785024' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/posts/default/4351240203430785024' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-921666996'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6789095549483601237.post-565231280800147905</id><published>2009-10-29T12:55:58.596-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-29T12:55:58.596-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I agree so wholeheartedly I can&amp;#39;t even find th...</title><content type='html'>I agree so wholeheartedly I can&amp;#39;t even find the words to tell you how much I agree!  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I also love my teen.  But WHEW - he&amp;#39;s expensive and he&amp;#39;s a LOT of work.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/4351240203430785024/comments/default/565231280800147905'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/4351240203430785024/comments/default/565231280800147905'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.birthblessed.com/2009/10/mothering-is-so-hard-its-easy.html?showComment=1256838958596#c565231280800147905' title=''/><author><name>Robin</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15021592319952104566</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05672753963214292681'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_sGEBGGqvF7M/SV1GPD6KlGI/AAAAAAAAAfw/tSZaZAaiRK8/S220/close+up.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.birthblessed.com/2009/10/mothering-is-so-hard-its-easy.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6789095549483601237.post-4351240203430785024' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/posts/default/4351240203430785024' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-827619146'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6789095549483601237.post-5684280187292342642</id><published>2009-10-28T00:01:58.640-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-28T00:01:58.640-05:00</updated><title type='text'>GREAT ARTICLE AMY.  I love my teens, but man they ...</title><content type='html'>GREAT ARTICLE AMY.  I love my teens, but man they are work!  Even if they are good kids.  They drive me crazy at times.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/4351240203430785024/comments/default/5684280187292342642'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/4351240203430785024/comments/default/5684280187292342642'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.birthblessed.com/2009/10/mothering-is-so-hard-its-easy.html?showComment=1256706118640#c5684280187292342642' title=''/><author><name>Mike and Sherri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03849911187165305638</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.birthblessed.com/2009/10/mothering-is-so-hard-its-easy.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6789095549483601237.post-4351240203430785024' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/posts/default/4351240203430785024' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-115891151'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6789095549483601237.post-6384850682693825205</id><published>2009-10-27T19:29:49.641-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-27T19:29:49.641-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Thanks for the comment on my blog.

You should com...</title><content type='html'>Thanks for the comment on my blog.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You should come hang with us at the park some Sunday!!!  We&amp;#39;re just an hour from you guys.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;:)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/4351240203430785024/comments/default/6384850682693825205'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/4351240203430785024/comments/default/6384850682693825205'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.birthblessed.com/2009/10/mothering-is-so-hard-its-easy.html?showComment=1256689789641#c6384850682693825205' title=''/><author><name>Christine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07276000726366302069</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='22' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_wsUk7FjnkjE/Sm0SSg1cWcI/AAAAAAAAB5I/GqqGm0TGm34/S220/mental.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.birthblessed.com/2009/10/mothering-is-so-hard-its-easy.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6789095549483601237.post-4351240203430785024' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/posts/default/4351240203430785024' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-2139489540'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6789095549483601237.post-3418586712268891216</id><published>2009-10-27T16:46:34.781-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-27T16:46:34.781-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Thanks Amy for this. I remember hearing and believ...</title><content type='html'>Thanks Amy for this. I remember hearing and believing some of those statements all those years ago. Since then I have assured other small people parents that they are lies from this end of the parenting journey.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/4351240203430785024/comments/default/3418586712268891216'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/4351240203430785024/comments/default/3418586712268891216'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.birthblessed.com/2009/10/mothering-is-so-hard-its-easy.html?showComment=1256679994781#c3418586712268891216' title=''/><author><name>Missus Wookie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11110080333983480503</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_dCm1_kLhgpQ/SD7OZbfToOI/AAAAAAAAAB4/-zYSfVfWSBU/S220/071013+Wendrie%27s+Hat+sm.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.birthblessed.com/2009/10/mothering-is-so-hard-its-easy.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6789095549483601237.post-4351240203430785024' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/posts/default/4351240203430785024' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-764365284'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6789095549483601237.post-6408800580051104828</id><published>2009-10-27T15:13:24.475-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-27T15:13:24.475-05:00</updated><title type='text'>This is so very, very good. You really have a way ...</title><content type='html'>This is so very, very good. You really have a way with speaking the truth, Amy. Way to speak up.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/4351240203430785024/comments/default/6408800580051104828'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/4351240203430785024/comments/default/6408800580051104828'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.birthblessed.com/2009/10/mothering-is-so-hard-its-easy.html?showComment=1256674404475#c6408800580051104828' title=''/><author><name>TexasHeather</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16267371981505419362</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_cjzFaz1n54Y/SRGGp3OTDwI/AAAAAAAAAxU/xuPIhEkfZs8/S220/10.27.08+Macae+Arraia+do+Cabo+086.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.birthblessed.com/2009/10/mothering-is-so-hard-its-easy.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6789095549483601237.post-4351240203430785024' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/posts/default/4351240203430785024' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-659651245'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6789095549483601237.post-3747707304623938268</id><published>2009-10-27T14:57:54.354-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-27T14:57:54.354-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Can I link to this, Amy? As usual, you&amp;#39;ve sopk...</title><content type='html'>Can I link to this, Amy? As usual, you&amp;#39;ve sopken some very real, very hard truth that so many (ie, ultra-QFers) don&amp;#39;t want to hear.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/4351240203430785024/comments/default/3747707304623938268'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/4351240203430785024/comments/default/3747707304623938268'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.birthblessed.com/2009/10/mothering-is-so-hard-its-easy.html?showComment=1256673474354#c3747707304623938268' title=''/><author><name>mary grace</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11028269181342950218</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='02063211593017810086'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_zCgg2RVlikY/SMiVaUCepZI/AAAAAAAAACk/4APQLC1sQdI/S220/Photo+2.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.birthblessed.com/2009/10/mothering-is-so-hard-its-easy.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6789095549483601237.post-4351240203430785024' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6789095549483601237/posts/default/4351240203430785024' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-2130632704'/></entry></feed>
